Saturday, July 16, 2022

Ove mwene li towola weende

 

Ove mwene li towola weende

 

Mpikilo matya: “Kapali otjikala okutya matu li lamba, umo ha dhamuka ha thiipo omukwao noovitji, ove vala hemba okutya ovakweṋi mave lilongo osikola ,ove motya ndino kosikola kumoiko. Ovakweṋi mava undapa hi, ove motya hyoka katji undapwa namuDhimba, ovipuka mbyoka ovyo vituuthitha koṋima. Kapali otjikala okutya matu lipatele naaṋi, nthe tu thiwe koṋima. Yetheṋi ondaka ndjoka, okutya twathiwa koṋima, ove omwene li towola weende. Okanunu heha haunako, ngako uundapetha”.

 

Mpikilo (Ekundungenge)

Sunday, July 10, 2022

Reasons Men Oppose Marriage

 

Reasons Men Oppose Marriage

 

As a philosopher and scholar, I would like to remind you to read whatever writing you enjoy or find objectionable. I also don't write under pressure when I'm upset. I conduct the in-depth study for both my own benefit and that of others.

In terms of who they believe wants to get married more, women report minimal gender difference: 18 percent of women say they want to get married more than their partner does, while 16 percent say the opposite is true. Men, on the other hand, have very different perspectives. Married males also have lower levels of stress and fewer ailments linked to stress. Additionally, they get better treatment when they are ill. Overall, men's lifestyles seem to be enhanced and their lives are stabilized by marriage. The team is what holds a family together.

It is a link that resembles God's selfless, unwavering, and eternal love for his children (those who by faith have accepted His sacrifice and adoption into his eternal family). Men have a 50% chance of getting married for the first time when they are 27 years old. Women are more likely than men to be married for the first time by the age of 30, at a rate of 74% versus 61%. Men desire to remain single in order to continue dating different women without feeling committed to one in particular.

He might love you very much, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Why isn't he prepared for a relationship, you might inquire. I am, but keep in mind that he is not you. In reality, a new study disproves the notion that marriage and family are the best and healthiest life destinations for men, demonstrating instead that single and never-married men enjoy happy, meaningful lives filled with friends, sensitivity, and resilience. What a man seeks in a spouse

Men desire a life mate who will be dependable, faithful, and trustworthy, just like women do. They want a partner who would support them, and given the high rate of divorce, it's not surprising that reliability would remain alluring. In his book His Wants/Her Needs, Willard Harvey lists the five most important needs that men in marriage have. Admiration, physical attractiveness, recreational companionship, sexual pleasure, and domestic assistance are the five demands listed above. In the context of Africa, a special my tribes Ovaherero speaking they discredit some tribes and other men as well for reasons known to us men, because of reasons we choose not to marry a long-term partner, sometimes because you had an affair with another tribe that you do not like or another whom you believe is not of your capacity. Most women are unaware that some men will put off getting married to her due to a few minor technical issues; although they may not think it is a problem, men may. Men don't lie to women because they don't want them; instead, a hormone in men causes them to cheat on them.

Most men won't show ladies since they are most envious of them. Women won't inquire about what they hear on the street, but men will. For instance, if a man finds out that his girlfriend is seeing another man, his hormones will shift and his behaviour will change. According to a recent study, if a person wants to avoid getting divorced, at least during the first five years, they should get married between the ages of 28 and 32. Most men believe they are still young to get married at that age due to a lack of responsibility.

When a man has an intense bond with a woman that he doesn't have with anybody else when he finds a partner who also serves as his best friend and who makes him feel unique and special then he will commit. According to a large body of data, women report feeling lonelier than men do at all ages and stages of life. With the exception of one special group: singles. While single males substantially outnumber single women as the loneliest category, married men just edge out married men as the loneliest group.

The following types of males should be avoided by women:

The Selfish Person. Does the man you're dating seem to be solely thinking of himself?

·         He who lies

·         A player

·         The Man Who Traipses You

·         The person who makes no effort

·         The Man Who Is Emotionally Unavailable

·         The Man in Charge

Many guys feel pressure to find the ideal partner or someone who perfectly complements them in their lives. The ongoing attempt to locate someone who is similar to them is one of the most frequent causes of why men no longer desire relationships. For a girl or women who report that their marriages are very satisfying and that they have improved heart health, healthier lifestyles, and fewer emotional issues, marriage is crucial. I was attempting to determine whether the happiest man on the planet is single or married, but I believe He continues by saying that singles who actively pursue social contacts can surpass couples in the happiness index. In spite of the fact that single persons were generally happier than married people, those who demonstrated the most social capital were happier than the typical unmarried person.

In actuality, I believe, individuals get married to establish a lifelong commitment, to give their kids a sense of security, to publicly declare their love for one another, and to gain legal status and financial stability. People get married to establish a lifelong connection, protect their children, publicly declare their love for one another, get legal status, and secure their financial future. Some people get married for show-off purposes, while others do so out of envy of others. You must pay attention to his wants and know when to give him space if you want to make your partner emotionally content. You have to be willing to take risks, be brave, and be adventurous in order to satisfy your boyfriend sexually. However, what matters most is that you are enjoying yourself while you win over your man. Women who are interested in them and not afraid to express it are attractive to guys. When speaking with a potential partner, smile, look him in the eye, and laugh along with him if you find his jokes amusing. Men want love just as deeply as women do, and things keep men in relationships. Simply said, they might not always be as transparent about it.

However, they all mostly seek friendship, connection, and chemistry. He avoids arguments and disagreements at all costs is one of the tell-tale symptoms of a weak man in a relationship. Even a light-hearted argument with a friend or his partner could make him feel uneasy and apprehensive. An ex will typically dump a weak man. As a result, he constantly worries about being dumped by his lover. Men alter after marriage for a variety of reasons. Most men become less caring and less romantic after marriage. A man must focus on a number of things after marriage, including buying a house and making his wife and kids happy. Their awareness of their obligations grows.

The growing economic options for women and the shifting roles of men and women in families may significantly influence the types of commitment dynamics I've outlined in an African true marriage, according to African belief. However, there is a strong counterweight to how much can change, and that has to do with the fact that men do not get pregnant whereas women do. As some scholars contend, it has always been vital for women to appropriately assess (and, if necessary, increase) the degrees of commitment of males given the significant personal costs of pregnancy and childbirth to women.  The equation underpinning my thesis may change as a result of the fact that women now have more options and personal resources than they did in the past, but some behavioural distinctions between men and women seem quite likely to persist due to biological limitations.

Regardless of how much gender roles may shift in the years to come, I think African marriage got it right in that when one partner lost interest in the other or passed away, something had to be done to keep the woman in the family. For instance, in ovaherero-speaking cultures, it was traditional to give a woman to a husband's brother or nephew. I believed that as other forms of relationships become more prevalent, marriage would become a stronger indicator of commitment (i.e., cohabitation). Marriage is intended to be transformative, but not all relationship transitions are. Thus, it is significant.

 

The Himbacracy Philosopher

Saturday, July 9, 2022

Hengua na Nangore

 

Hengua na Nangore

 

Ami mba konḓonona nu wina twa korokoha oukoto na Injangu Goti Riruako novakwao ovengi tjinene komurari mbwisanewa okutja ovandu weyaNdambi yaHengua. Ozombura ndano nda kapita.

Ovandu imba mbeya, nozongombe zo zonya ozonde, (Ankole/Nkole's cattle), tji mavezu komao nge hapwire kotuu tu twahasivi, (Central Africa). Vari ovanatje wombara Mbemba hiya Ngore naHengua.

Ovandu vevari mbararakana otjiumbu tjomuriro, ooHengua na Ngore varo Vakwatjivi. varara mOnḓonḓu ya Ruzeva (Ugab River), Onḓonḓu ya Kambundu ka Ndovazu orukoto yo Mingwati ndji tona ai mimiṋa. Otjihungu tjo Mukwejuva weya Pera/Muzi/Katenda ya Mwakaamba, indi tji maikahaṋo Mukuruvaro (Brandberg) mokati ihungame ko Muronga wa Atlantic koutokero eyuva ku rihita. Vaza pomuriro, otjiumbu tjozongombe tjandje ingwi omwangu ma vanga okuyaruka kOkaoko.

Omuhoko omunene mbwaza kOmao omanene waAfrika, mbwaenda omuhoko, umwe, woviwana ovingi pekepeke poo womihoko omingi pekepeke, mbwaondja ondjira onde tjinene tji weya nomuhona Kaundja, mba haṋika nomwangu we ai kombanda otjiwana tje atji kazenga, otjiwana tje tjihakwa mokurira ovatonga (Tonga) moukoto waZimbabwe nomahi warwe, nomahi warwe pekepeke, ngandu kooMawi, ovanatje mbo vakazenga, okuhaka uriri, posiya ovandu vaKaundja veya, veya nguno, orutjindo otjirwao ndja nao.

Posiya omuhoko mbwi weri ṱizire pomapu nomazeva wao, omapu wongaro novitjitwa vyo muhoko, nomapu wongamburiro, opu veri ṱizira koure wozombura, movita ovingi mbi varwa kumwe nowana ovingi, pekepeke amave rwire pomaryo, okutja ngahino mave karambo tjaa ave kaundurwa, ngandu ave kuhandura mehi raNgore raKauiju, (Angola), nganda avezu mehi raNgore aveya moukoto wehi ndi, ndeye kurira oraMaendo poo ehi Rautua tjinga ari ohoze yaro, Maendo kari ombara yehi ndi posiya wari ohoze, yehi ndi.

Okutara ehi romoukoto kona kurasana. Maendo ongweye kutara ehi romondivitivi, posiya Maendo kangwari omutenga kako, kweere ovandu ovengi, Ruṱuṱumo rwaNanguze weere wina, okari wari nombunga yovandu ve, mbeere okuye kutara. Posiya nao aavezu kokwara moutko wa Angola posiya okupikira koutokere, kuta konḓonḓu yaKunene. Kweere ovandu ovanahepero wina ooHengua naNgore, ovakuru wina veere ngandu tjivee kumuna omeva woKatoto ngeye kumunika omuatje wao Rijeja waNgore, pondundu yaTjozondjupa.

 Omeva woruharwi rwa Tjozondjupa. Kombunda yanao otjikweya, Ombunga ndji ndjeya pamwe naMaonde okuye kutara ehi rondivitivi. Tjandje nao ovandu mave kondjisiwa omaurumbu mehi raKaoko. Maendo pakaraere ovakwao okutja ehi ewa posiya ozonḓonḓu kazepupu, posiya omao omawa tjinene, omisema okuviri, nu wina rino omaryo nga yenene.

Onongo Jarimbavandu Kaputu watja, tjandje Maendo mahungire ehi ndasana kehi rao raKaoko rozondundu, novivanda nozongoto onḓaa hungire. Atara wina amunu okutja ehi ndino omuheke tjimuna omahi yemwe yaKaoko wina. Otundjindo tjitwekeya mombura yourumbu wehozu otjiputuko, mbwaeta ozombunga koutwa, ozombura zerukwe ombura yozombunga. Nu posiya kavezembire ongaro novitjitwa vyo muhoko, nawina ozoveta zao, kovanatje ovazandu novakazona.

 Ozoveta nḓa azetyewa ovanene, okuza peṱunḓu, pondjuwo pupena omukazendu nomurumendu ondi isanewa okutja eṱunḓu. Azetyewa onganda ndjino 'mundu omunene rive. Oyo ndjino omaṱunḓu pekepeke. Azetyewa otjiwaṋa, tjino 'ozonganda ozengi pekepeke, nambano nḓa orongana azetwapo omundu wozondunge ozombaera, omuna ndjiviro, ombangaṋe wina.

Nu wina omundu ngwa isanewa omunene wao poo omuhona wao, posiya okuza kororowa owo vari nombara Toro wa Mbanjuru. Ngu haṋikana naye ovandu vaToro avei kehi ndisanewa okutja ehi raBuganda (Uganda). Ouvara wa Toro ngamba okuuri konganda ombwa yaMbuende. Ovandu mbeya nguno ngwi tjandje vaza kouvara waToro. Mbari novanene vao ovahona wozonḓu nozongombe.  Avekara nomuhoko kuku wira omihoko pekepeke, owo uzikama momihoko pekepeke. Omuhoko mbwi aukara nomundu ngu meunana wina. Nu omihoko ivivari, omuhoko mbwazikama mbwa wana nomuhoko mbwazika meyanda, mbene yanda rimwe. Nu wina ozombanda nḓasana zeisanewa omuhoko umwe. Ovandu mba ovanene novanane, ombari ovatjevere wouvi momuhoko. Nu ovanane tjive hina ondjeverero movina mbi vetarewa neho enene. Vekara mave hungirwa okutja venana vi. 

 

Riree ovaputurke okuweza nokuṋeṋuna nawina okukwekurura. Ngunda ambi hiya tanaura motjiingirisa.


Uerimanga Tjijombo

Sex Prior To Marriage Is Not Wrong

 

Sex Prior To Marriage Is Not Wrong

I am the son of a pastor and consider reading the Bible to be one of the pillars of my life, but I am also aware that those so-called African Christians usually disagree with me when I express my own opinion based on my own research. Nevertheless, I have some further findings. When asked what the Bible says about sex, the majority of people will reply, "No sex before marriage." However, many Christians' responses are significantly less certain when asked to provide the particular passage of Scripture where this rule is found. My conviction that extramarital sex is wrong has been disproved.

I still want to learn more about having sex before getting married. What is the reality of having sex with someone who is not your spouse? In actuality, we are repeatedly having the wrong conversations. We are looking for any passage that even remotely resembles premarital sex in an effort to support what is generally accepted as true. Without considering their context or setting, we are utilizing these scriptures to support an unsupportable belief. Many sources cite the Ten Commandments as a mandate to postpone having sex until marriage. The eighth of these commandments is in particular. You are not allowed to commit adultery.

The issue here is that premarital sex and adultery are being confused when, in fact, they are two very different things. "Really, adultery is about breaking a commitment or a partnership. I am not the best at the Christian religion, but I used to say that one of the most crucial aspects of reading the Bible is comprehending the historical context in which it was written and how it relates to contemporary culture. The majority of what is said regarding premarital sex in the Bible is found in Paul's book of 1 Corinthians. "Flee from sexual immorality," says 1 Corinthians 6:18–20. While every other sin a person commits occurs outside of the body, sexually immoral behaviour occurs inside the body. Or do you not realize that the Holy Spirit you received from God resides inside your body, serving as its temple? You were purchased for a price, thus you are not truly your own. So use your body to honour God.

According to one interpretation of this text, God has power over our physical selves. While it is obvious that honouring God through your body or through celibacy is a means to do so, this verse also addresses the subordinate role that women currently play in society. "Once they got married, women were typically not allowed to have their own personhood or property. They may have been bonded to someone. Also crucial in this case is the setting of 1 Corinthians. Regarding the issues you raised in your letter, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 states that it is preferable for men not to engage in sexual activity with women. However, given the prevalence of sexual immorality, each man should have sex with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.

Paul asserts that each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband when it comes to sexual intercourse because he is aware of how difficult celibacy is for the Corinthians. He says this because he is aware that the Corinthians need a solution to the pervasive sexual exploitation. Paul is not addressing the entire world with this statement. I've given this a lot of consideration, and I believe that you can have sex in ways that are rewarding, enjoyable, kind, and generous, or you can have sex in ways that are negative, hazardous, and damaging. Marriage has never been and is not a means of defense against the negative, damaging, and dangerous possibilities of sex.

The dialogue we are having is incorrect. The traditional definition of marriage does not represent the sole covenant we have made with one another. We should modify the question to match our particular requirements, which depend on our unique circumstances and commitment to another person, rather than asking ourselves, "Is it unethical to have sex before marriage?" Sexual activity before marriage is not sinful.

 

Uerimanga Tjijombo

Friday, July 8, 2022

A Feminist Stylistics Study of a Namibian Short Story in English

 

A Feminist Stylistics Study of a Namibian Short Story in English

 By: Uerimanga Tjijombo

Abstract

This assignment delivers a feminist stylistic analysis short story in Namibia: Lana’s story by Berchen Kohrs. The aim is to find how Bertchen Kohrs how the language is used to present women and to know the key purpose of the short story.  This short story represented women being treated by men based on their status as well as their level their qualifications. This short story includes how women are being abused by men.  A study has shown that women characters are lower than men Nyathi and Malapong, (2002). According to Nyathi, (2012), women are the victim of men being abused by men by beaten by men in their marriage. Most women characters depend on their fathers, (Malopong, 2002). He describes women as attractive goodness because they can be only valued according to how they look, therefore they are quality is decreased by their sprits appearance. In addition, both writers used linguistic devices such as metaphors and figures to bring awareness to gender roles that are expected of women like working in the garden to provide food for their families and working as domestic workers as a sexual pleasure to their husbands. The study presented women as voiceless and powerless in many facts. The study for both Nyathi (2012) and Malapong (2002) describes women as undesirably, and the feminist stylistic was framework was successful in bringing these presentations to light.

Keywords: drama, feminism, stylistics, gender, representation, feminist stylistics

 

Background

The importance of language is not for communication only but it has a lot to do with culture, gender, and politics to view reality (Ufot, 2012). One of the interesting things in Namibia literature is drama. There is a lot that describes Namibia that is including social issues such as gender by not people treated equally in Namibia life in general (Mbise & Vale, 1998). Women in Namibia still are not treated equally compared to men in Namibia. In Namibia, there are a lot of stereotypes that make women treated like men, most people in Namibia believe in tradition, customary law, and cultural practices that make more men discriminate against women in many conditions (Ruppel, 2008).   The writer has found it interesting in analysing how the language used in Namibian plays dealing with gender issues more specifically represents women’s feminist stylistics approach. Feminist stylistics challenged roles as wives or mothers before feminism. It is a sensibility that is deeply rooted in a popular consciousness and mass awareness of the nature of human and social existence (mill, 1995).

Problem statement

It is factual that most gender is manipulated and defined by their sexes. That the problem that exists now has known is the high expectation of traditional roles of women are still exist reminded of their traditional values and gender position which is in their language of literature. Women are treated as marginalized people.  Demotion and subordinating of women in traditional societies have been a concern for those who believe in the quality of gender. This given confrontation of feminism has often been used as a way by feminist writers for their women by believing in themselves. However, this strategy has given good results to women in Africa. With fewer issues raised above, there is a need to readdress a feminist stylistic approach that is devoid of confrontational and radical tendencies. Maybe feminism which embraces a symbiotic relationship among the sexes may yield greater and more effective results for the women since language and style are the major weapons in the dissemination of the feminist message (Ufot, 2012).

Objectives of the short story

The main aim of this study is to analyse how short stories in linguistics perceptive can be used to explain the short story.

These short story-specific objectives are:

·         to carry out a short story linguistic analysis of the spoken language in the short story in feminist perceptive.

·         to examine how short stories, comprehend the feminist language in relation to their cultural background and their goals of interaction in the cultural perceptive. 

·         to identify the specific linguistic-based challenges such as feminist lexical phrases faced by lay females in the short story process with a view to describing them.

·         to offer suggestions on how feminist linguistics can be used to avoid language to misinterpreted during communication. 

 

A review of Namibian short stories in English

The researcher used a feminist stylistics approach to do an analysis at the level of word, phrase, and discourse in order to examine Lana story feminist concerns in her three stories that deconstruct traditional patriarchal fairy tales. The findings revealed that Lana’s story established ideologies and stereotyping of gender roles with a feminist interest. As a result, she not only deconstructs the sexist connotations of earlier fairy tales but also presents new stories to weaken female oppression through language by understanding the power of language in producing and reinforcing sexism.

Lana’s story researcher discovered that Bertchen Kohrs constructs the image of Lana as an individual who is struggling with the teachings of Namibia tradition through a feminist stylistic analysis of the image of female Lana in short stories. The female characters' parents, particularly the father, shape the image of the African, demonstrating that they are fulfilling their role as African trust.' Men are superior to women in African culture. findings of the short story "Lana story," in which the analysis revealed that language serves as a vehicle for the transmission of social, cultural, economic, and psychological forces or meanings in the representation of women at various stages, such as at home or at work, where women are portrayed as subordinates.

The patriarchal ideology in the presentation of women is inherent in the writer's thought structures, which are presented at the lexical, syntactical, and discourse levels of the short story. The short story writer has not only presented the social and economic roles and status of women characters as compared to male characters, but also the patriarchal ideology in the presentation of women, which is inherent in the writer's thought structures, which are presented at the lexical, syntactical, and discourse levels of the short story. They went on to say that this is a regular occurrence in women's representations in general and that this scenario should be changed. It does not, however, explain the power that these types of representations have for female listeners or the reasons why women, in particular, are the focus of this type of representational practice, nor does it recognize the other messages in the text that undermine the female character's dominant passive role. Looked at gender representation in advertising language through the lens of feminist stylistics, looking at the word and clausal naming devices, stylistic features, and rhetorical devices to see how advertisers and copywriters use language to portray women.

Their male colleagues, on the other hand, have a great deal of autonomy in the same case Lana did not say anything about her husband’s behaviours due to cultural practices she decide to keep quiet. She told her friend was about to further her study and take care of her children since she believe that the future will bright for her but unfortunately, her life end in halfway, and she was killed by her husband under the influence of alcohol. Her friend was shocked when she had about her death she did not advise anything. Every woman has the right to the recognition and preservation of her human and legal rights, according to the agreement. It contains articles on marriage equality, access to justice and political participation, women's safety in armed conflict, and education, training, and health care. Due to the culture of Africa people turn to ignore even those who are mistreated do not take it seriously till something bad happens to them and people in the surroundings do not speak about all these bad things. In the review of this short story, the researcher has realized that women's marginalization and invisibility in African policy-making is still a hot topic in the worldwide debate. Restrictive laws, cultural diversities, and customs, institutional hurdles, and uneven access to quality education, healthcare, and resources are all likely causes for concern. Men use language to subordinate women, according to the more extreme interpretations, while women respond by tiptoeing around men in their language use. This exposes the presence of sexism in language, which can be detected in a variety of ways, including the use of stereotypes, generic terms, derogatory or offensive words, and expressions that imply objectification (Baker & Ellece, 2011, p. 129).

Namibia's society was extremely patriarchal and racially divided until it attained independence. The patriarchal system is based on paterfamilias, which means that the man is the household's head. As a result, his wife would be his 'property,' and she would be his slave. However, there has been a paradigm shift in human rights conceptions since the adoption of the Namibian Constitution in 1990. The Namibian Constitution sets a strong foundation for gender equality because it is one of the few constitutions in the world that employs gender-neutral language throughout and expressly prohibits discrimination based on gender (Ambunda & DeKlerk, 2008). In Namibia, women continue to confront obstacles in achieving equality with their male counterparts. Due to conventional beliefs and gender stereotyping, women continue to face uneven treatment in many areas of life, particularly under customary law. Patriarchy and men's discriminatory attitudes are frequently justified by citing tradition, customary law, and specific cultural customs (Ruppel, 2008).

Women expect to specialize more in the reproductive role, therefore there are fewer incentives for them to acquire human capital through education. As a result, many women do not complete their education and instead marry younger due to cultural expectations from their families. Many African women, in particular, are trained to be good spouses and mothers, and as a result of these cultural expectations, they readily accept the reproductive role and obligations. Men assume that women's place is in the home and men's place is outside the home, which limits women's participation outside the home and men's participation inside the home (Husselmann, 2016). As a result, the writers are influenced by the existing sociological condition of women in Namibia. According to Adedoja (2010), the social significance of literature cannot be disputed because literature cannot be isolated from social ideals (p. 34). It's mostly about social ideals and how they're projected by different writers in different generations. This argument includes Namibian literature, which includes the plays under consideration.

To begin with, women in Namibian literature are portrayed in a bad light. Sifiso Nyathi, a Namibian novelist, for example, writes about Kachana, a woman character with questionable morality, in his work The Other Presence (2008). Kachana is notorious for drinking excessively and associating with guys, as opposed to her female counterparts who only associate with women. The author did not represent the guys who keep Kachana Company as similarly wicked or unfit, despite the fact that they were also intended to bear the brunt of the guilt for being in each other's company.

Finally, Woldemariam’s (2018)'s study "Improving sociolinguistic competence through feminist stylistics" confirms that gender discrimination through language exists, as one of its major findings was that women figures in the two poems studied are given inferior positions, and men are visionary and resourceful, while women are emotional.

A review of research articles focusing specifically on feminist stylistics

Feminism, according to Ray (2013, p. 4), is a conscious awareness of patriarchal control, exploitation, and oppression at the material and ideological levels of women's labour, fertility, and sexuality, in the family, at work, and in society as a whole, as well as conscious action by women and men to change the current situation. Gibbons (1999) defines feminism as a practice and a philosophy that challenges social arrangements on the relative value, status, positions, duties, and opportunities of men and women. Women are oppressed, according to feminists, and are treated differently. Women face not only personal but also institutional prejudice in a patriarchal system that benefits men. Feminist linguists argue that language can be used to generate and reflect gender inequality. Language, according to Mills (1995), is a social behaviour and a method of social control. As a result, according to Holmes (1997), linguistic behaviour reflects complicated social meanings.

We exert or relinquish power over language by indicating the various social groups with which we identify, the social roles we embrace, and the frequently contradictory ideals we promote. (p.195) Feminist criticism is a theory that originated in the United States and France and has extended into feminist stylistics. Feminist criticism derives its theoretical foundations from the greater feminist movement, which argues for gender equality in social, political, and economic matters. However, the feminist movement's dialectical inconsistencies and tensions have made it impossible to define it precisely. Language, as a means of communication, is permeated with male bias, according to feminist criticism. Sexist beliefs can be communicated through descriptions of girls and guys, even when no generic masculine rhetoric is used or when remarks are openly derogatory. In newspaper reporting about women's atrocities, there is an intentional marginalization of women (Holmes, 1997).

According to Verma (2016), sexism in language is one of the most constitutive components of feminist stylistics, and it deals with the use of language in defining the function and place of a specific gender in social interaction. Sexist language, according to Mills (1995), is the language that is used by a speaker, whether consciously or unconsciously, to alienate females and create an environment that is not conducive to communication and effective social relationships. As a result, feminist stylistics or feminism analysis is primarily concerned with language, as language is the primary medium of meaning that serves to maintain dominant relationships. Thus, studying.  Stylistics, according to Verdnok (2013, p.12), is an interdisciplinary phenomenon that studies the relationship between literary results and language means. The multidisciplinary nature of the work demonstrates that current stylistics has expanded beyond classical rhetoric to encompass cognitive, pragmatic, corpus, pedagogical, multimodal, gender, and other methods (Burke, 2014). Simpson (2004) goes on to say that feminist and cognitive stylistics are two established schools of stylistics that have contributed to the enrichment of stylistic methodologies. Feminism in a literary text entails examining the ways in which meaning contributes to the perpetuation of dominant relationships. To put it another way, language is not only a means of communication or even information, but it is also a tool of power (Darweesh & Ghayadh, 2016). Stylistics is a method of applied language research that makes discoveries about the structure and function of language through textual analysis (Simpson, 1997, p. 4). Stylistics originated in the 1960s, influenced by formalism, literary criticism, and linguistics, according to Stockwell (2006). Due to the requirement to account for aberrant forms in the study of poetry and prose, stylistics gained significant traction in the 1970s. Stylistics was focused on the linguistic study of literature, whereas non-literary studies were referred to as 'critical linguistics,' 'critical discourse analysis,' 'text linguistics,' and so on. Although Burke (2014, p. 1) points out that stylistics can be used in the study of non-literary texts, stylistics is referred to as literary stylistics.

According to Short and Semino (2008, p.117), stylistic analysis is a type of linguistic criticism that aims to provide objective and scientific critique based on concrete quantifiable data and applied in a systematic manner rather than subjective emotions and wants. To put it another way, we can figure out how we interpret a text by looking at the linguistic organization of the text and how a reader, informed model, or super reader interacts with that linguistic organization to produce meaning. As a result, it is possible to conclude that every style analysis is an attempt to discover the aesthetic principles underlying a writer's linguistic choices of language. As a result, according to Holmes (1997), language behaviour reflects complicated social meanings. We establish or relinquish power over language by indicating the various social groups with which we identify, the social roles we embrace, and the frequently contradictory values we espouse.

Feminist stylistics emerged as a branch of stylistics in the late 1970s and early 1980s, when the trend of contextualization was proving to be advantageous in literary stylistic studies. It shares concepts and language models with critical stylistics because feminist analysis of texts is one of the most powerful and politically necessary expressions of the analysis of literature as a product of social relations (Birch, 1989). Burton (1982) is also a significant person in the feminist stylistics field.

The feminist approach to stylistics is now most closely connected with Sara Mills' and Deirdre Burton's recent works, as well as Virginia Woolf's critical intervention and French feminists like Jacques Lacan, Helene Cixous, and Luce Irigaray. It claims that men have a predominance over how women are treated in society and how they are portrayed in literature. As a result, it uses its words to create an honest counter-image of women. The goal of this stylistic approach is to investigate how literature represents (or does not express) a distinct female consciousness. In the process, literary art is primarily viewed as a vehicle for highlighting female perspectives and dismantling male prejudices about women.

Feminist statisticians want to bring women into the spotlight (Ufot, 2012). Feminist stylistics, according to Blaine (1990, p. 3), is the strongest successor to critical stylistics, focusing on unmasking patriarchal ideas and denaturalizing patriarchal assumptions. As a result, the purpose of this stylistic method is to investigate the evolution of language and social change. This is accomplished by attempting to dismantle language's figurative and expressive potential, which favours women's subordination, dehumanization, and enslavement in society. As a result, feminist stylistics focuses on the interpretation of texts from a feminist perspective. It recognizes that there are linguistic correlates to society's subjugation of women to men, and it sets out to not only uncover but also abolish these correlations. The self-conscious initiatives by female writers to modify established patterns of language use are highlighted in a methodical manner by feminist stylisticians. They do so by detecting the dialectical aspects of such writings, as well as alternative ways of expression. The feminist ethos serves as the grounding idea for this approach to stylistics, which covers a wide range of topics and skills in textual analysis.

Major Findings (Analysis and Interpretation of extracts from the Namibian short story   selected

After reading Lana’s story, one can see that women in Namibia continue to face challenges by being treated the same compared to men. In many ways of life as Lana explained to a friend she was very good and she expected to have a wonderful relationship with his husband Paul, who was a well-qualified engineer and working for a good company that gave him accommodation in the company house. To look at things under customary law, women are still subject to unequal treatment due to traditional beliefs and gender for not being in the same position.  Lana was explained as the smartest woman than her husband but she did not have qualifications due to the African belief that women must not be equal to their men. Lana has accepted life as good life since she admitted African cultural practices which are frequently cited to justify patriarchy and men’s discriminatory attitudes. 

Many women in Africa, special those who are expected to be good wives and mothers, that what was applied to Lana she thought she has achieved as an African woman because of this cultural expectation, she did not know that things will change one day she did not both about to further her study until Paul her husband she her attitudes to alcohol and being African man who assumes the reproductive role and responsibilities without much protest. Men as well assume that women’s place in the home and that men’s is outside the home, which limits the participation of women outside the home and men in the home. Lana when she got married she was pregnant with another man, but Paul used his manpower just like other African men not to worry to stay with the child because she loved his mother he did not mind taking the child his child.

 It is true that in some instances, gender differences are manipulated widely in defining sexes. The problem at hand is that expectations and the traditional roles of women are instilled in the language of literature such as plays to function as a reminder of women’s gendered position. The choice of words validates and promotes patriarchal thinking to perceive women as the marginalised gender. Because of survival and lack of qualification Lana knows that his husband started sleeping around with another woman but because of African behaviour and attitudes she decides to accept to stay so that she can take care of her children, in the name of her husband because she had a belief that she will be going to suffer if she divorced the husband.

Her friend did advise her since both of them seem to believe on the same page since they were friends. Lana was married a very year at the age of 18, as a woman African, she had to believe that she has settled. She went to visit a friend, thinking that perhaps her friend will advise her differently but her friend did not do anything. This encompasses, among other things, prejudice against widows, discrimination against women with fertility troubles, discrimination against unmarried women of specific ages, lack of inheritance for girl children, female genital mutilation, and gender bias. In a normal African civilization, women are supposed to be well-behaved, decent wives, and not interrupt their elders.

Lana's story would not sit well with three ladies from Opuwo's Great Kunene Region, who have expressed their opinions based on how males treat them. Kat stated that she wanted her husband to regard her as a friend. She does not want to know much about her husband's personal life, but she does want him to value her. According to her beliefs, males are not equal to men, but she desired to be respected as a woman like any other woman. She wants to feel like she's a part of her husband's life. According to the researcher's findings, most men are selfish; they would want to be helped by their women, but they prefer not to help their women, educational, economical, and emotional. She departs in the manner of African life, but she wishes to depart in the manner of Africans, but in a modern manner. The researcher believes that Namibian women, particularly those from Opuwo, desire not to get away from their African culture but don't want to lose out on the treats. Women deserve to be treated like other women; it doesn't matter how you act as long as they don't know what you're doing.

Another Opuwo woman, Zaku, stated that she does not expect much from her husband but that she wants to gain from him, and that if she does not contribute anything in the way of tangible things, she must show her love by paying more attention. She stated that she does not need to access her husband's phone, but that her spouse must not do things that cause her to wonder what he is doing with his phone. She does not want her husband to hide his phone, particularly if he does it by turning it upside down. The majority of women, according to the study, want to be loved and respected as women, just like other women who have seen their husbands treat them properly. However, these Opuwo women respect their tradition, but what they seek from men is true love, which they do not receive from their spouses or partners. The researcher discovered that women have been mistreated by their men since most women, according to their culture, are unable to speak up and express their feelings about how men should treat them.

Another talkative lady, Lenzy, stated a few things, but she was quite precise because she said, "I will be very glad if a man values me since I do not rely on men." She also remarked, "A man cannot be a failed man, even to provide attention to your women." She stated that if a man is unable to support her, he should at least contact her every day or send her a text to say good morning or good evening. Women from the Great Kunene region, specifically from Opuwo, do not expect much from men and do not want to push them too hard. All they seek is genuine love and respect.

 

Recommendations 

A feminist stylistic analysis of one Namibian short story was offered in the study. Despite the fact that the researcher considers his own findings to be the sexist roots of his research, he believes that women express some fundamental truths with amazing clarity. He makes a compelling case that respect is a core, and an absolutely necessary, component of a good marriage (albeit more so for males than females, in his opinion), and he uses a number of compelling examples to demonstrate how a shift toward unconditional respect can breathe new life into a relationship. If he emphasizes a universal truth, it is one that is applicable to both men and women. His understanding of the insane cycle, for example, is that a wife reacts without respect to her husband's lack of love, and a husband reacts without love to his wife's lack of respect.

Rather than this formulation, the researcher proposes that when one spouse fails to satisfy the other's innermost needs for both love and respect, the second partner will respond defensively and fail to meet the first partner's deepest wants for both love and respect in return.

It may be simpler to give ideas by making broad generalizations about huge groups of people, but a thoughtful approach necessitates evaluating the unique character and traits of each individual and each close relationship. Maybe men and women don't inhabit such disparate worlds after all.

Conclusions

The primary goal of this analysis was to examine the short story. The researcher might learn a lot from women if they love their spouses as they expect to be loved because they do what they anticipate from men. If given the choice, women would prefer respect and love over feeling insulted and inadequate, according to the researcher. He gathered this data from the perspective of a female and discovered that a similar majority would prefer not to feel mistreated and inadequate than appreciated and loved. Based on this knowledge, it was determined that a woman need love in the same way that she requires air to breathe, and a husband requires respect in the same way that he requires oxygen to breathe.

 

 

 

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Wednesday, July 6, 2022

Wise Thought of Wisdom

 

Wise Thought of Wisdom

What is the difference between an African or a conventional marriage and a white wedding or a so-called Christian wedding? Are we Western or African, or are we neutral like a nation without origins and quality background? Why are we on one side Western and the other African? We have Westerners living in Africa who are unconcerned about their culture and stick to it. In Namibia, a white wedding is one in which the bride and groom dress in European attire and have their ceremony in a church (white rituals). Others go to a court and do their thing (court white rituals).

 The traditional wedding is the one where they dress in African attire and go to each other's ancestral home or where the Holy fire is (okuruwo, oshoto, oshinyanga or olupale) and performs some rituals (No church, No court), but a dowry (bride price, ongombe yorutombe/yovitunya, ongombe yokuwonda koshiwambo) payment ceremony, is very important. Marriage is seen as a sacred connection between one man and one or more women in African traditional societies, with all others excluded. In a broader sense, this concept is extended to the union of two families, two communities, or even two nations. Several characteristics are shared by African marriage systems. They nearly always entail the groom or his family transferring the bride's riches in the form of cattle, commodities, or services to the bride's family. As the lady transitions from one social group to the next, this exchange is both actual and symbolic.

This is my wise thought: I believe divorce rates are so high because we believe in western marriages. In addition, I think weddings are just used as publicity stunts, while egotism and celebrity immaturity fuel the culture of divorce.

The Himbacracy Philosopher

Your hormones took control of your sexuality.

 

Your hormones took control of your sexuality.

I write anything that comes to mind that I believe to be significant for both myself and the few who find reading to be fascinating. Ngajozikue Pule Judah Muharukua, one of the pastor's kids, randomly questioned me about life in general, which led us to exchange questions on humanity in relation to Africa. I only need to tackle one significant subject from his speech, and that is sexuality, which has the most human element associated with it. Although I haven't done any research in many years, I have largely used my head for non-fiction. Because it seems evil, most people avoid talking about sexuality, but here is what I have to say. You will suddenly change your slow-by-slow way of living as you get older and learn more about life, yet even my best friend Musengua Given Abubakar Tjijeura wants to get married.

When you turn fourteen, your hormones have suddenly stolen fifteen years of intelligence, and when you look at someone, every lump on their body appears to be its own small globe. Today, 90 percent of human energy is devoted to either sex or money, in my opinion. These are just two minor facets of your existence. One is about your survival, and the other is a particular feature of your physiology. These two issues have grown so significant because someone informed you that they are incorrect; as a result, he is watching movies while his mind is going wild. Pornographic content is readily available today. He can only think that this is what every woman wants because he is watching it on his phone.

You must comprehend his issue because, although your reproductive organs make up a relatively small portion of who you are, what belongs there has been effectively pushed up into your head. As a result, sexual activity now takes place constantly in your mind rather than your body, making it impossible for you to avoid thinking about it. If you tell someone to stop thinking about something, it will turn into their full-time job.

There are many reasons why someone engages in intelligent sex; for some, it is merely for pleasure; for others, it is a means of forging a connection and companionship; otherwise, people may feel they are drifting apart, even though they may be perfectly fine. However, for many people, it is ingrained in their minds that if they are not sexually involved, they are actually moving apart. People are extremely pumped if there is no sexuality in a relationship; this is especially true in this region of the world. In fact, it took me a while to understand the word "relationship" in this context because it implies a sex-based relationship. No other situation is a connection. If I can have a close relationship with you without worrying about your physical appearance. I might not be attracted to your body in the slightest, but I could still have a very strong connection with you. However, all other alternatives have been entirely ruled out because a relationship implies that you are somehow physically connected, man-woman.

In essence, it is based on the type of body that each individual chooses, but in essence, it is based on the body. This took place because, at some point, our identification with the body beyond typical levels. The mainstay of society has become body-based interactions due to an over-identification with the body. All throughout, I keep hearing these complaints. He never puts a finger on me, unlike other individuals, mostly women, who continually moan that their husbands are too physically active. As long as another person is involved, nothing will ever go precisely as you want it to, so whatever does occur is a problem since nothing will ever go exactly as you want it to. It will never.

No matter how lovely the other person is, it won't matter whether you get married because as long as your way of being, your sense of pleasure and joy, is dependent on another person, it still won't happen. Therefore, it is not sexuality that creates a barrier, but rather the attachment it fosters to physicality, which unquestionably does so. As I talk, you are looking at me with this kind of intensity.

You are experiencing this level of energy while you listen to me. This kind of energy exists. The same life energy is expressed in various ways in these things. The same force is also shown in sexuality today. Now, one must choose how much of his energy to direct in which direction. Since you have a finite quantity of energy, the answer to this question is probably "yes" because it is based on some of the rumours you have heard about how to absorb your own semen and increase the likelihood that it will work. However, one does not do it because they are abstaining. You do it as a result of internalizing your energy. It is not only that when someone abstains from sex, all of a sudden his energies are organized and they are increasing. It's untrue; even if your energies start to unite and ascend, your need for sex may go away, but that doesn't make you incapable. Although the urge is gone, it doesn't render you powerless. It's just not a compulsive behaviour anymore. Additionally, all compulsivity is lost; it is not limited to this one object.

In essence, the majority of sexual activity that takes place on the planet is motivated by a compulsive want. It is not sexuality that restricts it; rather, it is an overwhelming identification with the body. If you make it too huge, your thoughts will start to get perverse. You will become much more perverse in your thoughts if you attempt to destroy them. Sex is the highest thing he knows and is naturally pushed by someone who is overly identified with your physical body. There are ways we can influence you to discover something much larger than this. If you taste something better, you won't need me to tell you to give up this or that because the weight will come off on its own. There are ways to go about doing some things that are more passionate and ecstatic than sexuality. All forms of prayer, no matter how you look at it, aim to stimulate the pineal at some point because, once it starts secreting, everything around you turns sweet and lovely.

It produces a whole inner delight that makes all other pleasures seem like elementary school-level activities. Due to this, people often just sit quietly and offer prayers. Not because they oppose enjoyment. All they are against is minor pleasures. Therefore, one of the things that happen with Himbacracy is that it greatly enhances pineal secretion, leaving you covered in a certain amount of sweetness throughout the day. Because the pineal gland is active, it just leaves you with a feeling of happiness and ecstasy. Your consciousness is very linked to this part of your physiology. The rest of physiology is concerned with survival. However, the pineal gland is one part of your physiology that is really close to going beyond the realm of the physical.

The Himbacracy Philosopher

Tuesday, July 5, 2022

Men shouldn't try to buy women's love.

 

Men shouldn't try to buy women's love.

Most men, especially those from the north of Namibia, I've noticed, don't propose to women but instead use the power of money to own them. Because of this, women don't love them but instead adore their money, and once that money runs out, they begin looking for other men who can pay them more than the one they already have. This leads to the killing of women by men because most men from the north don't understand this.

Some women understand to accept men because they used to fall into a trap; if they have been given a lot of money and materials, they end up accepting because they look like they are guilty of using the men's money and materials but they have nothing to offer back rather than accepting them by force or by fire. Women are still being killed but still do not understand because they were confused to accept men. Most women only tolerate males; they don't care for them.

Every student in grades 4 through 12 must learn about our constitution since it states that no one should be exposed to torture or cruel, barbaric, or humiliating treatment or punishment in Chapter 3 Article 8 of the Namibian Constitution. Chapter 3 of the Namibian Constitution must therefore be known to all.

I've heard it reported that 90% of Namibians are Christians, but I don't see how that's possible since Matthew 5:21 of the Bible states, "You have heard that it was told to those of old, 'You shalt not murder,' and anyone murders will be liable to judgment." What is wrong with some males that they don't follow the Namibian Constitution or the Bible even though they profess to be a strong defense against all evils?

The subject of guys rapping about their own daughters is one that I find very puzzling. I'm not sure if they do it because their daughters look like their mothers or if there is some other reason; it's too complex for some of us to comprehend. These days, you can even hear another male rap about the kind of environment we live in, where men are pretending to be women and women are pretending to be men. What matters is whether western culture promotes justice or injustice, and how Christians will respond to that topic.

I do understand that the majority of men are killing women in quiet because they believe that because they are males, they do not need to report women because doing so makes them look cowardly. Because of this view, most men end up killing women in secret. Men's suggestion boxes, where they can put anything that's burning them, are something I think we should have.

Since most of their solutions are based on earlier times, we must have asked the communities and traditional leaders for additional information. When compared to how they were living now, we have been living without such a circumstance.

We need to start over if we sit down and give it some serious thought, and we can only do that if we return to our culture. We can learn a lot about life from our culture. Men, let's stop purchasing women entirely. I consider the Himba culture to be one of Namibia's most robust cultures. We have very specific guidelines for the area. While not all aspects of our society are ideal, the majority of them are.

I am aware that many women simply take the offer since they live in a challenging and hungry world, but parents must also teach their children to make sensible decisions, and ladies must speak to their daughters. We must understand how our children, both boys and girls, live. Sometimes, even when you are certain that you have not given money to your children, you fail to inquire as to how they acquired the Brazilian hair and fancy smartphone.

I adhere to the philosophy known as Himbacracy Philosophy, which is based on real Himba laws. In the context of our society, is not the best theory but is the finest practice; with our regulations, our kids almost never make a mistake. Someone may claim that our way of life is primitive, but they never specify whose best life they are comparing it to. As a result, I implore everyone to respect their culture and to adhere to their cultural traditions.

Himbacracy Philosopher

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