Monday, September 25, 2023

An Unforgettable Encounter: The Tale of a Chance Meeting, Laptop Repair, and a Woman's Complex Personality


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An Unforgettable Encounter: The Tale of a Chance Meeting, Laptop Repair, and a Woman's Complex Personality

In Namibia's Kunene region, there is a beautiful lady named CT who was born there. I had no prior acquaintance with this lady until twelve years ago when our paths unexpectedly crossed. At that time, neither of us knew each other. It was a chance encounter orchestrated by my friend, Mr. JDT, who also happened to be a close friend of hers. He called upon me to repair his laptop, a task I completed in Opuwo, a location approximately 700 kilometres from my workplace in Windhoek.

As I embarked on my return journey to Windhoek, I found myself on a bus belonging to my friend, Mr. TMM. During the trip, this previously unknown lady, whom I had repaired the laptop for, called out to me, accusing me of breaking her laptop. This accusation puzzled me, as I was confident in my computer skills and could not fathom how I had caused any harm. It quickly became apparent that her distress stemmed from her limited knowledge of computer usage.

In response to her pleas, I decided to halt the bus. Mr. TMM, the bus driver, inquired about the reason for the unscheduled stop. I informed him that I had forgotten something in Opuwo and needed to return. However, Mr. TMM explained that the bus company's policy did not allow for refunds on long-distance journeys, and I should have raised the issue before reaching Otjokavare. Faced with this dilemma, I reluctantly left my fare and sought alternative transportation, as the lady's insistence compelled me to assist her.

Notably, my friend Mr. JDT was not in Opuwo during this incident; he was working 100 kilometres away from the town. Upon my return to Opuwo, I inquired about the laptop's issue, only to discover that her concern was related to the arrangement of icons on her desktop. After resolving this minor issue, I resumed my journey to Windhoek, leaving the lady in a state of distress.

During my journey, I called her twice to ensure she was all right, but she was still upset. I also informed Mr. JDT of the situation, who nonchalantly remarked that as long as the laptop was functioning, there was no need to be overly concerned about her emotional state.

Subsequently, many years passed without any contact between us, and I doubt I would recognize her if we were to meet again. However, fate had other plans. One day, while walking with my younger brother near Opuwo Pep Store, I encountered a lady who asked if I was selling shoes. I happened to be carrying leather shoes and agreed, requesting her phone number to provide more information about the sale. Little did I know that she was the same lady who had caused me a detour and emotional turmoil years ago.

Our communication began, but it took me some time to recall our earlier encounter. Unfortunately, our interactions became strained, and her behaviour changed. Curious about her personality, I sought the opinions of her male friends. Mr. SMU described her as a kind and hardworking woman who preferred not to depend on men. He mentioned her preference for neatness in both herself and her partner. However, he noted that she had unrealistic expectations and a tendency to try to shape her partners to her liking, which often led to relationships ending swiftly.

Mr. JNPM emphasized her desire for progress in life and her need for a hardworking and serious partner. Mr. JDT highlighted her insecurity as her primary issue but praised her otherwise good qualities, including her abstinence from alcohol. In contrast, Mr. SJV expressed doubts about her consistency and stated that her behaviour seemed unpredictable.

Lastly, Mr. SVM reacted angrily when asked about her and strongly discouraged any association with her. He warned that their friendship had not lasted a week due to her erratic behaviour and suggested that no man should consider pursuing a relationship with her.

In summary, this lady's life has been marked by chance encounters, computer issues, and a spectrum of opinions about her personality and suitability as a partner.

The Himbacracy Philosopher

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